For most of us, the answers to these questions are largely dictated by the simple constraints of geographical convenience, available time, the nature and extent of our storage facilities and our budget as well as personal preferences.
Shopping has changed as an activity almost out of all recognition, in my lifetime. When I was a small child, growing up in the late sixties / early seventies, in a leafy suburb of North-West London, there were no big supermarkets within easy reach. Especially as my mother then didn't drive and shopping had to be done on foot, with assorted scratchy baskets and string bags in tow. Carrier bags were not then, as again now, freely offered to contain your goods. We didn't have a big freezer at home - only that little freezing compartment you used to get at the top of your below-the-counter fridge - it held an ice cube tray, a brick of frozen chopped spinach and maybe another brick of Walls' Neapolitan ice cream and nothing else. The fridge itself, (minus the space taken up by the freezing compartment), was pretty limited in capacity too. There was a walk-in larder though and plenty of cupboards for storing non-perishable foods. My mother, brought up under rationing in wartime Britain, regarded these cupboards as her insurance against prolonged siege or famine and you could have lived for months, even years, off her hoard of tins, bottled fruit and dry goods. You still can, actually! It's become something of a family joke.
Extracting stuff from these cupboards was, and still is, not a task for the faint-hearted. My mother is quite short (barely over 5') and these cupboards are both deep and lofty, so it always falls to my father, who is now not far off eighty, to climb an ancient, rickety stepladder, and rummage about in search of whatever it is that my mother is after. The required item is always at the back and only extracted after a small avalanche of cantilevered boxes and cartons heads south, which is sometimes headed off at the pass and sometimes isn't. My father surveyed this task and its attendant perils with limited enthusiasm fifty years ago and he hasn't got any keener on it since! Understandably so!
To supplement the withstand-a-siege-cupboards and the daily delivery of milk in tall, glass bottles from Harry, the milkman, my mother shopped little and often.
from "Shopping with Mother" by M E Gagg; illustrated by Harry Wingfield, (London: Ladybird Books Ltd, 1958) |
from "Shopping with Mother" by M E Gagg; illustrated by Harry Wingfield, (London: Ladybird Books Ltd, 1958) |
Shopping then was an experience straight out of the Ladybird book, "Shopping With Mother", a book I loved as a very small child. And while I never had long, fair plaits like Susan (more's the pity!), I did have a miniature shopping basket, very like hers, and my mother looked not at all unlike Susan's!
from "Shopping with Mother" by M E Gagg; illustrated by Harry Wingfield, (London: Ladybird Books Ltd, 1958) |
The Internet has brought supermarkets and faraway suppliers otherwise out of reach to the tips of our fingers, as we sit at home. Most supermarkets sell a good deal more than food. You can pick up clothes, bedding, kitchen equipment and more, along with your groceries in the glories of the one-stop shop. I know I am old-fashioned here, but I do not like this growing tendency. It's most convenient to be able to pick up a bottle of wine along with the ingredients for supper and non-food, but kitchen-related, stuff I can cope with, but I do not like being confronted with lawnmowers and chain-saws when I am buying milk and potatoes!
Apart from the lawnmowers-cheek-by-jowl-with-milk-and-potatoes issue, these changes are positive - far more convenient and they offer a much wider landscape for culinary creativity and I am deeply grateful for both. Working full time, six days a week, means my shopping time is limited. I don't have time to shop as my non-working mother did. But I still hanker after those days and given half a chance, I'd snap them up again.
As I mentioned in my initial post about this £1-a-day Food Challenge, my shopping habits have changed radically over the last few weeks. I am delighted at what the changes have brought about and food-shopping has become, for the time being anyway, a bit of an adventure.
The shift has had to take place in advance of the project itself in order to make sure that instead of the normal brands I buy of basics such as flour, sugar, tea, rice, oil, etc, etc I have replaced them with significantly cheaper ones so that when I come to use them in the challenge itself, I am not inadvertently blowing my budget.
The swapping over process has inevitably taken some time and quite a lot of patient searching and sourcing and I'm glad I started it early. My go-to source of help on the quest for cheap buys has been mysupermarket.co.uk which is a quick and easy tool for comparing prices across all the standard UK supermarkets. It didn't take more than a few minutes of doing price comparisons to realise that I have been paying way over the odds for a huge number of items. A very large proportion of what I have been buying from Ocado or Waitrose can be had for a fraction of the price elsewhere. Not everything, but a lot. I realise that I have got a bit sloppy about food-shopping and have got set in ways which, while convenient, are actually costing me a great deal of unnecessary money.
Of course, one has to be clear about whether one is comparing apples with apples or apples with pears, figuratively speaking. Soft brown sugar, for example, varies quite a bit, not just in price but in texture and flavour and I greatly prefer Waitrose's soft light brown muscovado sugar to cheaper soft brown sugar brands which don't seem to have the deep aromatic flavour of the Waitrose muscovado. But a red onion is a red onion is a red onion, if you see what I mean.
Anyway, I have been slashing my Ocado order by two thirds and have been sourcing most of my other stuff from Aldi.
It's two miles further away than Waitrose but in the scheme of things it's a comparable trip so there's no real extra cost in travelling. It's been a revelation shopping there. A basket of goods that would have cost me £35 or more in Waitrose, has come out at little over £15 at Aldi and the shopping experience itself has been slick and straightforward. There are no frills and the range of goods on sale is much smaller but all the basics are there, for a fraction of the price. I find it best to go with a balance of clear planning and a defined list of what I want but with enough flexibility to be open to picking up something in this week's special deals that maybe wasn't on the list. Some items are on the shelves this week but they won't be next week so you need to have a bit more flexibility than you would at the other big supermarkets, where there's a predictable consistency of what's on offer.
I've found that a lot of Aldi's stuff is British sourced which I like. Their vegetables are particularly good - tomatoes to die for and really fresh, bright spinach, for example. Soya milk, porridge oats, tinned tomatoes, rice, olive oil - things I buy a lot of - are fine and very much less than the price of my usual ones. You can't buy white bread flour there though, nor many individual herbs and spices. I haven't braved their meat or fish yet - we don't eat a lot of meat and when we do, I want it to be free range which, understandably for a budget store, Aldi doesn't offer nearly so much of. But all in all it's been a very positive shift and one that I shan't be reversing any time soon.
Some things I wanted to use in the £1-a-day food challenge I have had to look further afield for. Dried pulses for example. Lazy old me, I've never bothered to soak and cook dried beans and have always preferred the convenience of tins but dried beans work out much cheaper than tinned ones so were perfect for my budget meal plans. You can't get these in Aldi and actually Sainsbury's turned out to be the best cheap source, along with Lidl for lentils. The nearest Lidl to me is twenty miles away so I had to ask a kind friend with a local Lidl to get those for me. Lidl also came up with the prize for the cheapest white bread flour - 75p for 1.5kg. It's not as good as the Canadian Extra Strong flour I get from Waitrose, but mixed, approximately 50/50, with home-ground wholemeal, it's fine.
Oatmeal proved more problematic. It ought, I felt, to be a cheap foodstuff but a) it isn't as cheap as porridge oats b) it isn't nearly as ubiquitous. In the end I had to speculate to accumulate and had to order 5kg bags of medium and pinhead oatmeal from BuyWholefoodsOnline.co.uk which halved the price per 100g compared to the standard supermarket one.
I had to top the order up with other stuff in order to qualify for the free delivery charge, which doesn't kick in until you spend £30, which was a nuisance, but it's all stuff that will keep and I will use. This highlighted one of the big pinch points of the poverty trap - in order to access the cheapest deals, such as these, you need capital to lay out, up front. You will save in the long run but you need ready cash initially and that's difficult on a restricted income that, after all, has to cover items other than food such as rent, clothing, utilities etc. My father-in-law helped set up a local credit union to provide very low interest loans for people in this situation, a few years back and I've really appreciated afresh what a practical everyday difference such a facility makes.
I notice that the use-by dates on these bags of oatmeal are the end of January / early February next year and although I expect that, stored carefully, they'll be fine for a while after that, I do hope nobody goes off porridge in a hurry, or my bargain oatmeal won't be quite such a bargain after all!
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What an interesting post, I really enjoy reading about your challenge. What struck me most was your last section, to benefit the cheapest deals you need to have cash up front. We are not cash poor but find bulk buying is stretching our budget quite considerably at the time of shopping. I can only imagine how difficult it would be for people with small income, or people living on their own. I guess it would need to be a long term project and a well planned one at that, if ready cash is a problem. I can see a need for someone to go into communities and teach how to plan and shop!
ReplyDeleteI love your account of shopping when you were little, it appeals to me even though it would be hugely unpractical for us. We enjoy shopping like that during holidays though, it feels like a treat then. I have a dislike for all supermarkets expect maybe Waitrose, which doesn't seem to market so aggressively and has only got small sections for non grocery items. Our (Richard's) usual shop has recently replaced three aisles worth of food with a party corner, where you can buy glitter balloons and other nonsense (I am not joking). I personally can't stand Aldi but only ours and because it is so so busy. Sometimes there is a queue for the apples! The meat by the way will not live up to your standards, we have tried it. Funny enough, I am rather fond of Lidl, which is a little further away but more quiet. They sell a lot of fruit and veg in cardboard containers rather than plastic, which I like. I also have a fondness for their cold meats (ham etc). Luckily, Richard does our grocery shopping so I don't need to worry so much. He happily shops were things are good value. I go to the butchers, I enjoy the chat and the advice that comes with the mince. Better stop here. I am already looking forward to your next post, thanks for sharing your challenge journey. Before I leave, it is so lovely to see you blogging again, I missed your presence in blog land. x
Thank you so much Christina! It's nice to be back writing again, I have to say. Yes, the conundrum that bulk purchases are far more economical but when money is tight, they are often beyond the reach of available cash for purchasing seems most unfair. I guess this is where the answer is probably to link up with others wanting the same product and pooling resources but on a practical level that poses all sorts of logistical problems. There's also the issue of storage - I had to buy some very large air-tight containers to store the oatmeal in as I simply didn't have anything large enough other than a dustbin! Like you, I prefer things packaged in cardboard not awful plastic. I also like those American-style thick brown paper grocery bags - Safeway, when it was still in the land of the living, offered them for a while but they didn't seem to catch on. I love your comment about enjoying "the chat and advice that comes with the mince" - absolutely! E x
DeleteWhat a lovely post - those gorgeous Ladybird illustrations took me right back. I too shopped with my mother on a daily basis (I had the plaits but, sadly, not the basket!). I fear that my larder may resemble your mother's cupboards - I tend to buy extra virgin olive oil when it's on offer and last year, during a tidy up, I was horrified to discover that I had 14 bottles (yes, 14!) in my larder. Needless to say I won't be buying anymore any time soon! I am temporarily without a car and am having my supermarket shop delivered. It's not nearly as much fun and I think I may revert to my mother's method of picking up things for the evening meal on a daily basis. Our local farmers' market is good fun too and it's always nice to eat seasonally. Good luck with your challenge. xx
ReplyDeleteThank you! "Shopping with Mother" is so evocative isn't it? Nice to know it resonated with you too! I envy you the childhood plaits! My mother thought curly hair was much better short and so I was never allowed to grow it. My longing for plaits was so great, I even made a pair of brown wool ones that I pinned in place with a hair-grip! You made me laugh about the olive oil - been there and done that myself, if not with olive oil then with tinned chopped tomatoes which I just seem to stockpile on auto-pilot. I dread to think how many there are in the larder as I write! Interesting that you are thinking of reverting to shopping on a daily basis for each day's meals. I'd definitely do that if I could juggle other stuff and if I lived within walking distance of the supermarket. E x
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ReplyDeleteWe had also got into shopping in one place because it was easier. We have also discovered the joys of Aldi fruit and vegetables. We have also embraced a new to us product called Quark, which (for anyone who hasn't heard of it) is a fat free soft cheese which can be eaten as savoury or sweet depending what is added to it and is high protein, so really good for those vegetarians amongst us. It is very easy to get into a habit of buying the same things at the same places, so it is good to experiment, isn't it?
Best wishes
Ellie
You're so right Ellie - shopping becomes a habit one doesn't even think about most of the time! I'm pleased quark is becoming more available - I find it very useful especially in Polish or other Eastern European cooking where that sort of cheese is used a lot but can be difficult to track down in the UK. Enjoy your experimenting! E x
Delete"I don't have time to shop as my non-working mother did." Your mother was a stay-at-home mom not a non-working mother! Reading about your childhood shopping was enjoyable and so different from growing up in the States where we had grocery stores. The one my family frequented was called "Jumbo" so that gives you an idea of the scale even then. Your analysis of shopping in the present is the same here in Virginia and it's just as easy to get into a rut! Thanks for posting!
ReplyDeleteYes, sorry, I should have been more precise. Mea culpa! E x
DeleteI do sometimes hanker after those "Shopping with Mother" days and though I was never very keen accompanying my own mother, I loved going with my grandmother who seemed to visit far more interesting shops. Our weekend treat was to cycle into the village to spend a shilling on sweets at the baker's and I'm sure it did my mental arithmetic good to work out exactly what I could get for my money.
ReplyDeleteBuying in bulk is good in theory but the downside (apart from the initial outlay) is that if you don't like it then you're rather stuck. Incidentally, I buy dried beans, cook them and freeze them. Also, of the opinion that flour is flour and never buy branded flour.
Another interesting post to make us think before we buy.
Is this where my mental arithmetic went down a hole, I wonder?! Not enough trips to Pratts to get in the practice! Yes, I agree about being stuck with bulk purchases that turn out to be disappointing. Not good economics. The oatmeal is a safe bet though, as far as I can tell! E x
DeleteI too remember shopping with Mother, however I grew up on a farm quite a ways out of town and we only went to the grocery store once a month and then just for sugar flour etc.. We had dairy cattle and a huge garden and feeder cattle that we sold or butchered. The only fun shopping was when Daddy had to go to town for a tractor part as he would pick up a root beer or a candy bar! I guess I never developed a taste for shopping then as I am a "make a list, check it off and get out" type of shopper! Oh, and it all takes place at Walmart or Winco! Unless you are talking about the fabric and yarn shops...that is a different story!
ReplyDeleteHow lovely! Sounds a bit like the life described in Laura Ingalls Wilder's stories or Lois Lenski's "Prairie School" - so evocative! Yes, I know what you mean - there's a whole big difference between food-shopping and fabric-shopping! E x
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